My story: of despair and hope

Posted 2 years ago #

Hi there,

I am new to this site, discovering it courtesy of Jim, a friend from way back in University days who I recently got back in touch with via the magic of Facebook. I checked out the site and loved what he was doing. My life has been pretty crazy these last few years and he suggested posting something about it here. I have been meaning to do it for ages, but finally have gotten round to it. I hope it provides some hope and inspiration to anyone in need of a little:

Over the last decade I had gradually been developing a worsening skin condition. The doctors called it eczema and it made my skin dry, red and sore. They prescribed steroid cream and for a time this helped. As the years passed it started to return more and more frequently, and would last for longer and longer.

Just over 4 years ago it reached a sort of crisis point, where my condition deteriorated rapidly. The cream was now completely ineffective and I was covered from head to toe. Literally every inch of my body was bright red, my skin just started falling off and didn’t stop. It was completely raw and a thick black, putrid smelling liquid would ooze out of it day and night, sticking me to my bed sheets. The slightest movement caused my skin to tear and I was in utter agony day and night. I couldn’t sleep and the itching drove me to complete insanity.

The doctors could do nothing to help and for the next year I lived this way, trying every alternative treatment I could think of, from different diets to acupuncture and Chinese herbs and even hypnotherapy. Nothing helped.
Out of complete desperation, and knowing it was my only possible chance of help I made a terrifying decision. A couple of years previously I had been in South America and had drunk ayahuasca in the Amazon jungle with some shamans. This is a sacred visionary medicine used there for thousands of years. It had been a profound experience, and something told me that this could help. With no alternative I decided to return there and live with them for as long as it took to heal myself or until I knew that it wasn’t going to work. It was just about the last thing I wanted to do, but I knew that my only alternative was suicide (and I came pretty close to that).

In order to get there I used huge quantities of immunosuppressant tablets and steroid cream, just to be able to move enough to travel, and then stopped them once I arrived. For the next year and a half I lived through even more pain than I thought it possible to experience as I worked with the shamans, participating in ceremony after ceremony. Quite aside from the physical torment, the ceremonies were almost without exception absolutely terrifying, as they took me into altered states of reality in order to help me purge both physical and emotional energetic blockages. (I quickly came to realise that the 2 were closely linked).

Anyway, to cut a very long story short(-ish), I have now been here in Peru for almost 2 and a half years and am way, way better, though there is still a way to go in my healing. I at least know that there is light at the end of the tunnel even if I cannot see it yet. Recently I was well enough to leave my jungle home for the first time since I got here, a great sign of progress.

While the last 4 years of my life have been pure hell, it has been without doubt the best thing that has ever happened to me. It took something this drastic to wake me up and to make me really take a look at myself and my life and to start making the changes necessary for a happy and fulfilling life. I had always knew that I was unhappy, without really wanting to do the work to find out why or to change it. I wanted it to be done for me, though I am now patently aware that life doesn’t work that way!

My experiences with ayahuasca have completely changed my entire view of what life is and how it works. It pushes me every day and forces me to confront things I would rather not deal with. But in doing so, I not only get healthier physically, but also life changes (that is, not just my perception of life, but life itself is actually different), and these changes are always positive.

Writing is becoming more and more an important part of my healing and I hope one day that what I have will be good enough to be published as a book. Ayahuasca teaches that anything is possible if you are prepared to put in the hard work. And that life never gives you more than you can handle (though it quite often gives you WAY more than you think you can handle!)

Anyway, I am hoping to be fully healed and out of here later this year. I cannot wait to get back out into the world again after 4 years of isolation and feeling like a prisoner. I don’t know whether it is acceptable to post links on here, but if it is I can share the website of the place where I am staying if anyone is interested. Also, I took part in a documentary here last year which has just been finished and submitted to various film festivals around the world. I can share the link to the film’s website too, if anyone wants to take a look, it includes some footage from the movie.

Anyway, thanks for reading! Be well.

Cheers
Mark

Mark in Peru

Member


Posted 2 years ago #

Thanks for sharing Mark - where did the last 14 years go from University in Nottingham???

Feel free to post a few of your youtube links of the footage right here in forums - all you need to do is to paste the url and put it in comments...

Ayahuasca - a new one on me and one I'm curious about - having recently been made redundant and recovering from divorce it is all part of lifes path....as we hustle up and crack on....!

Welcome to GO! Smell the flowers Mark - enjoy the ride.

Jim

Founder


Posted 2 years ago #

Thanks Mark for sharing your amazing story - it shows your deep courage to get through what you have. Good luck and we look forward to seeing your video clips and visiting the web links.

And welcome to Go! Smell the flowers - you have a great story of hope and inspiration to tell, so please do share it even more :-)

Love and best wishes

Arvind

god

Member


Posted 2 years ago #

Hmm, not sure how to post the clips here, but you can find them at http://www.metamorphosisfilm.com.

Also check out http://www.bluemorphotours.com to see the place where I am doing my healing.

And read http://www.nationalgeographic.com/adventure/0603/features/peru.html for a first hand account of the power of ayahuasca to heal depression

Cheers
Mark

Mark in Peru

Member


Posted 2 years ago #

Thanks Mark,

All you need to do posting wise with yourube clips is cut n paste the link - here's one I dug up featuring Alex Grey, visionary artist, talking about an ayahuasca experience he had in Brazil.

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Jim

Founder


Posted 2 years ago #

*for yourube see youtube!

Jim

Founder


Posted 2 years ago #

Hi Mark,

Nice to 'meet' you and fantastic timing as my next post was (possibly still) going to be about Ayahuasca healing. I was under the impression that it was more of a pyschotic drug than it is a physical symptom reliever so thanks hugely for the insight.

I'm glad it's worked for you and from what I've read, the sessions can be quite traumatic so it can't have been a decision that you made lightly.

I've heard stories of people with parkinsons having wonderful detatchment after just 3 sessions and of people with horrendous childhoods being able to address issues and finally move forward.

It seems equally as drastic as it does beneficial.

Do you still take part in regular sessions Mark and if so, how many a week and what are you aiming for? Ie full recovery or managability.

Thanks,

Lib

Lib

Founder


Posted 2 years ago #

Thanks Lib,

Yes indeed ayahuasca tends not to be much fun, but the benefits are so worth it. I am still participating, and will be doing a ceremony this evening. It will be my first for a couple of months and am feeling the familiar fear rising again. Over the course of a year I probably do around 80-90 ceremonies - I am coming up to 200 in total after almost 2 1/2 years.

I am indeed hoping for full recovery. I know it is possible as long as I stay here for long enough and keep facing my fears. Hopefully it won't be too much longer - maybe another 6 months. But that is a long time in the world of ayahuasca!

Ayahuasca alone is not medicine - drinking it alone can be extremely dangerous. It takes the presence of fully trained master shamans and a ceremonial context for healing to take place.

Jim, the video clips are not on youtube, just on the film website, so I cannot paste them in here.

Cheers
Mark

Mark in Peru

Member


Posted 2 years ago #

By the way, if anyone has any questions about ayahuasca in general or my personal experiences, please ask. I am more than happy to share. For me it is truly the most amazing thing on the entire planet and it still blows my mind that this really exists.

Cheers
Mark

Mark in Peru

Member


Posted 2 years ago #

Hi Mark,

Loved the National Geo article kicking off with:

'For centuries, Amazonian shamans have used ayahuasca as a window into the soul. The sacrament, they claim, can cure any illness. The author joins in this ancient ritual and finds the worlds within more terrifying—and enlightening—than ever imagined. '

As you approach 200 sessions does it become deeper or lighter? More fear or less fear and does any 1 session stick out, like your first or your last?

Jim

Founder


Posted 2 years ago #

Hey Jim,

More of less fear? Well, I get the answer to that is both. It seems to come in cycles. At first I was scared out of my mind the whole time. A level of fear that you just don't experience in every day life. After many ceremonies I moved through that and things got a little easier. Though ayahuasca always pushes you close to your limit, there is always more!

Recently the fear has started to come back big time, as I get down deeper into my shit, as I approach the core issues behind my physical symptoms, which basically comes down to a fear of living,a fear of being. It seems that this is something instilled in me at a very early age, that I decided the world was an unsafe, scary place, though I do not know of any single traumatic incident that brought this on. Since then I have lived my whole life in fear, though I was able to hide it well for a long time behind many things, but especially alcohol.

Now I am going through a process of just accepting life as it is. Accepting that shitty things do happen, that sometimes we suffer, but that this is a very important part of life. Learning to trust that this is indeed a higher power guiding the process and that no matter what trauma happens in life, I am always safe, I am always protected. I will survive every experience I have in my life, no matter how horrendous, until I die. And when that will be I have no say in whatsoever.

Suffering truly is life's greatest teacher, and remembering this is a powerful aid to getting through those times, of not giving up hope even when there seems no possibility of change.

I have had many ceremonies that stand out, but out of all of them the very worst one happened recently, in January. I knew something big was brewing and I went in bold, asking for twice as much as I would normally drink in order to move that energy.

Well, within an hour I was out of my chair and on the floor screaming my head off. I was in complete insanity and I knew in that moment that I would live in absolute terror for the rest of my life, that this torment would never ever end, that there was just no way out. It is fair to say I didn't handle that very well!

I screamed for about 2 hours that I couldn't go on living any more. That I was done. That I was going to kill myself; that was the only way out. In that moment I truly believed it and it was fear beyond words.

What I couldn't recognise at the time was that this was my deep fears about living starting to surface. I was unable to see that it wasn't me, and it was just this stuff being purged, coming out through my consciousness.

The next day I felt much better having got some of that stuff out, but it is just the beginning of tackling that deep fear. While I don't want to go through that experience again, at least it is now coming out, and what a different place the world will be once I am free of it,

Mark in Peru

Member


Posted 2 years ago #

Hey there,

I found a clip of the documentary called Metamorphosis that I took part in on YouTube, so hopefully I will be able to add it here. Let's see ...

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Mark in Peru

Member


Posted 2 years ago #

Great Mark, thanks for addressing my questions...

Loved the ' suffering is the best teacher' quote...I can relate to that but on a smaller scale,

Quite a journey your having - would you like to write the occasional inspirational post here at GSTF? Your words could help alot of people...

Jim

Founder


Posted 2 years ago #

It would be a pleasure to Jim. Just let me know how it all works!

Mark in Peru

Member


Posted 2 years ago #

Another clip from the movie ...

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Mark in Peru

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Posted 2 years ago #

Nice one Mark!

Great clip and thanks for agreeing to be a contributor at GSTF - I'll send you a facebook message and have a think about what name you'd like to be known as here, Makr works - we need to design your contributor badges as per the homepage of the blog...

Welcome aboard!

Jim

Founder


Posted 2 years ago #

Hi everyone,
my name is Keith and I am new to this post. I am a friend of Mark's and the filmmaker of the documentary "Metamorphosis" from which these clips came from. I have seen parts of Mark's journey up close, and let me tell you, it has been an incredible one, one that he has been generous enough to share in this film. I made the film because I have had some incredible experiences in the medicine as well, profound and healing. I thought that this medicine and the Shamans that hold the Ayahuasca ceremonies was a story that needed to be told. I hope that the film will enlighten people about the medicine and if it can help anyone in anyway, well, that would be the icing on the cake. If there are any questions, please feel free to ask.

peace,

Keith

JungleBaby

Member


Posted 2 years ago #

Hi Kieth,
Welcome to GSTF and great job with the film!

Mark will be taking the plunge and contributing to GSTF posts at the main blog - I'd like to introduce him with a special post in his honour and would like to include you video clip...is that ok?

Healthy Rgds,
Jim

Jim

Founder


Posted 2 years ago #

Jim,

Here's another clip from the movie in which I feature briefly, albeit not in the best of conditions. Dunno if this one would be better for you to use, or maybe Keith has something else with me in that would be more fitting?

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Mark in Peru

Member


Posted 2 years ago #

Looks a great one to use as it really builds the whole experience up preparing to face fear!

Bon courage.

Jim

Founder


Posted 2 years ago #

Mark,

Thank you for the courage to share your life. I am so happy that you have a new direction in life and are going to contribute posts to this site. Welcome aboard!!!

CC

Posted 2 years ago #

Mark,

I forgot to mention that I've had all types of skin problems since I was born. However, when I began going to psychotherapy and talking about my abuse, everything resolved without medication including rashes and psoriasis that I've had since birth. All that energy inside needs to express itself in some way.

CC

Posted 2 years ago #

I had to truly take some time to read, and absorb the information/story/life journey you posted here, and I am in awe of you.
Stunned.
What an amazing, and beautiful, and inspiring ... journey. My Gawd! You ROCK!
I've had this page up for hours, and I've researched, prayed, meditated and pondered all of these glorious events that you have shared.
You are brave.
You are greater than this life time!

Posted 2 years ago #

Thanks for those kind words. They were very well timed. It's a real rollercoaster ride out here and today was a tough day, but every day that passes is a day closer to victory. I am getting a real first hand look at the nature of fear!

And there can be only one outcome. It is just a matter of time.

Mark in Peru

Member


Posted 2 years ago #

Hi Jim,
I apologize for taking so long to respond. If course it's okay if you want to post the video with the blog about Mark. Thank you for asking.

peace,

Keith

JungleBaby

Member


Posted 2 years ago #

No worries & thanks!
Feel free to join GSTF and give those profile question a GO!

Jim

Founder


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